You cannot possibly know which approaches to healing are going to work for you in the beginning until you jump in with a willingness to explore by experiencing the practices and modalities firsthand. As you progress in your healing journey, you will gain a more realistic understanding of the forms of practice and therapeutic interventions and their efficacy. Only when you recognize the changes taking place within your body and mind will you be able to determine what practices and interventions are working best for you.

I know how distressing it can be because I was in the same position of not knowing what to do when the traumas of my childhood and adolescence began to surface during my mid-twenties. What made it even worse is that I found myself forming attachments to women who were themselves deeply wounded. Those relationships were in many ways a reenactment of my early life trauma.

I often felt as though I were flailing in the dark. To continue to suffer such debilitating pain and to continually reenact all that heart wrenching relational drama indefinitely was totally unacceptable. I was determined to do whatever it took to heal the deep emotional wounds and get my life on track, so I tested out so many different approaches.

I invested enormous amounts of my time, effort and financial resources. I was also thorough, giving the various practices and therapeutic interventions adequate time so I could determine what kind of impact these practices and interventions were having upon me. I let go of any approach that I found to be ineffectual or that had limited impact. And then I continued to work with the most highly effective practices and interventions.

Even though I was making substantial progress, there were also times along the way when I found myself confronted by the challenges in my relationships and other areas of daily life. The pain that I experienced as the deeper levels of trauma emerged was horrendous. I couldn’t help but wonder and even doubt if I was getting anywhere as these extraordinarily painful and all-consuming impressions and emotions reemerged.

But I would keep reminding myself of the progress I had made. And then I would keep putting one foot in front of the other by continuing to make use of the use the practices and healing interventions that had enabled me progress up to that point.

My mentor Horace, the traditional Native American doctor knew I needed to get started. He had me assisting him in his work while encouraging me to start working with people on my own. I was, however, still very much in the midst of my own healing process.

I have since the beginning had an added advantage of being able to look deeply into people’s bodies and minds to observe what was taking place. I could see each individual’s emotional wounding and the various health-related issues that were manifesting in their bodies. I could see where they lacked certain resources and capabilities. I could also see the ways in which an individual was strong and resourceful.

My ability to recognize the specific impact that the various approaches to healing were having upon their bodies and minds furthered my understanding of the efficacy, and in some instances the lack thereof, of the practices and modalities that people were utilizing.

No healing practice or modality can address every need. If I determine that I cannot be of service to you, when we speak, I’ll be straightforward and let you know. If I know of other providers or interventions that will better serve your needs, then I will gladly share that information with you.

When you read or listen to the testimonials, you will get a sense of the transformation that Heal My Heartache can facilitate for you.

I am deeply invested in you getting the results you need and desire. That’s why I am limiting Heal My Heartache to a select number of individuals who are truly committed to doing what it takes to heal the deep emotional wounds, to develop their bodies and minds and to embrace life by showing up fully present and loving courageously.

The results you derive from Heal My Heartache will vary according to your individual needs and considerations and the amount of time and effort you invest in your process of healing and growth.

We’re living in a world of instant gratification. That being said, you’re not going to get much out of Heal My Heartache if all you do is watch a few videos, or if you fail to do the work necessary to facilitate the healing of your body and mind.

Reading and listening to the testimonials that I’ve shared will give you a good idea of the power of these practices and therapeutic interventions. The processes that I’ve led people through in Heal My Heartache have been truly life transforming for those who have incorporated the understandings, practices and therapeutic interventions into their daily lives.

I am cautious about making promises because I do not want to build false hope in anyone. I can, however, give you a more realistic assessment of what’s possible for you when we speak by phone.

So many men and women that I’ve had the opportunity to work with have been able to heal the wounds resulting from the most devastating losses, let go and move on in their lives. And many have gone on to establish much healthier relationships with companions with whom they share a deeply loving connection.  

The healing process I facilitate works on so many levels. People who have worked with me over the years have healed from a wide range of emotional and health-related issues. Many have healed the deep emotional wounding resulting from childhood emotional, physical or sexual trauma. Physical conditions such as heart disease, stroke, digestive and respiratory issues and injuries such as those resulting from automobile accidents also respond very well to this form of healing. I watch these same individuals gain a clearer sense of purpose and direction and develop the resilience and other internal resources needed to realize their potential.

Heal My Heartache is for anyone who is either in the midst of or still struggling with a painful loss. The main prerequisite is that you possess a strong desire and commitment to do whatever it takes to truly heal and transform yourself. The principles of Heal My Heartache are applicable whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender. Heal My Heartache is not affiliated with any religion and yet is open to those of all faiths.

Heal My heartache is for those of you who are:

• In the midst of a breakup or divorce or separated
• Experiencing a great deal of uncertainty in your current relationship
• Struggling with patterns of abandonment, rejection or unrequited love
• Your relationships keep blowing up and you just can't seem to get it right
• Grieving the death of a loved one

Everyone who signs up for Heal My Heartache will have the opportunity to work with me individually. I’m offering both remote and in-person sessions. I’m making the remote sessions available for those who are not able to be in my geographic proximity. However, I strongly encourage you to work with me in-person, even if you have to travel some distance to do so.

The remote sessions generally run for about two hours. In these sessions, I’ll teach you practices specific to your own individual needs that awaken the innate healing intelligence residing within your body and mind. Some people do tell me they feel the transmission of healing power during these sessions.

The one-on-one in-person sessions usually run for about three hours. These sessions are far more powerful. I begin the sessions by scanning the physical and subtle bodies. I will then guide you through the meditation practices that are specific to your own individual needs.

As you know, I began my training with a traditional Native American doctor from the Kiowa Indian Tribe. Since that time, I’ve been going on the vision quest, a native practice that involves going out to fast alone in the mountains without food or water for four days and nights. It’s during the vision quest that I have received the gifts that enable me to facilitate healing within the bodies and minds of those who work with me.

Traditional Native American doctors and healers of other indigenous cultures have for thousands of years acted as conduits for powerful forces that facilitate healing that would not otherwise be possible. I too am acting as a conduit during the main part of the healing sessions. As you lay comfortably on the table, I allow an extraordinarily powerful presence to work through me to facilitate healing of the physical body and the deep emotional wounds.

These sessions are powerfully effective when it comes to healing the deep emotional wounds resulting from a painful breakup or divorce and patterns of abandonment and unrequited love. It means a lot to me to see men and women’s lives being transformed as they let go of abusive or otherwise unhealthy partners and relationships and moved on in their lives. Many of these individuals go on to form healthier, more meaningful and deeply loving relationships with partners with whom they truly resonate.

Living among people of diverse cultures in different parts of the world opened me to whole different ways of being. I’ve spent a great deal of time training with individuals from a number of spiritual traditions that have attained high levels of mastery. Those who attain these levels of mastery are incredibly strong and resilient. They possess extraordinary gifts, healing powers and in some instances capabilities far beyond the range that most people in our modern-day world would consider to be humanly possible.

Only a small percentage of people living in our modern-day world are living up to their true potential. Many are carrying the scars and, in some instances, debilitating emotional wounds that will remain with them until the day they die.

Most have never learned to work constructively with their own emotional responses. The residue of all those unprocessed emotions and the accumulated physical toxins creates a great deal of stagnation within the body and mind. This accumulated toxin accelerates the aging process by causing the body and mind to break down at a more rapid pace.

The practices and therapeutic interventions that I’ll be introducing you to will facilitate the cleansing of toxicity and healing of the physical body and the deep emotional wounds. And they are especially powerful when it comes to healing and transforming the sadness, grief and devastation resulting from painful losses and other forms of heartache.

As you make use of these practices and interventions, you will develop greater strength and resilience. You’ll experience a growing sense of lightness. Your passions will awaken, untapped resources and new capabilities will emerge, and you will realize more of your true potential. As you live according to your sense of purpose, doing more of what you love, you will live a more deeply fulfilling and meaningful life. And that’s going to make you far more attractive to the kinds of individuals with whom you truly resonate.

We’re now living in a fast-paced modern-day world where we are being conditioned to our detriment on a daily basis to expect immediate gratification. And yet it is critically important for us to understand that any worthwhile endeavor is going to require an investment of time and effort on your part. That being said, I understand that some people may need to start off slow by doing twenty minutes of practice and then work their way up. I much prefer that people working with me do at least an hour of intensive daily practice.

Now let’s think back to an earlier part of your life... How much time, effort and commitment did it take for you to make it all the way from kindergarten to twelfth grade? And how much more commitment, struggle and hardship did it require for you to make your way through college or even graduate or medical school?

Consider all the hours of intensive practice and numerous other sacrifices made by sports legends or your favorite actors and recording artists to attain the levels of greatness that made them so extraordinary.

...And yet when it comes to spiritual practice, taking the steps needed to heal the body and mind and transform one’s life, many think it’s okay to be inconsistent by only practicing intermittently ...or maybe they practice for twenty, fifteen, ten or less minutes a day.

WTF?

How does that even make sense?

I’m fortunate to have trained with a traditional Native American doctor, a master of the Chinese internal martial arts and other individuals who have attained high levels of mastery. I know from what I’ve witnessed and have experienced firsthand that it was common for those who attained mastery to devote hours a day to intensive spiritual practice. Many of these individuals became highly realized, developing phenomenal power and capabilities as a result.

My question to you is …How much do you want to get out of Heal My Heartache? How far do you want to go?

Because as you take the steps to heal and transform yourself, you develop a lightness, strength and resilience. Your inner beauty emerges as you become the embodiment of your authentic self. As that happens, you’re naturally going to attract the kinds of individuals into your life with whom you truly resonate. You’re going to become more fully engaging and love more deeply. And you’re going to get a whole lot more out of life.

The more you more you devote yourself to this process, the more you’re going to get out of it.